The precarious 'good mother' position: a psychosocial reading of maternal subjectivity of working mothers in scarcely-resourced South African communities

Abstract

This psychosocial study investigates the maternal subjectivities of mothers returning to work after maternity leave, who are living in scarcely-resourced Cape Town communities in South Africa. Engaging with interview texts and listening to mothers' talk, I explore how and why maternal subjectivity is constructed discursively and defensively in our talk. This thesis claims that these particular mothers predominately employ instrumental mothering discourse. The traditional subject position of the intensive mother "“ which is typically assumed to be the 'good mother' "“ is not a position available to these mothers due to their social circumstances and working role. Subsequently, material provision, the baby's thriving and surviving body, finding substitute carers and maternal preoccupation are constructed as qualities of 'good mothering' in their talk. This 'good mother' position, however, is a precarious position that both these mothers and I invest in to defend against feelings towards their babies and themselves as well as to deny (maternal) ambivalence in a problematic social system. In a combined analysis drawing on discursive theory and psychoanalysis, more specifically contemporary attachment theory and intersubjectivity theory, I illustrate how both these mothers and I "“ as emotional, social and political subjects "“ co-construct maternal subjectivity. Based on the findings, recommendations for parent-infant interventions are discussed. Arguing that a purely psychoanalytic reading of investment perpetuates notions of individual blame and pathology, I advocate for a psychosocial reading that does not neglect failing social systems but rather pursues an open and reflective, yet critical, mindfulness when listening to talk.